I’m Nervous, How Do I Network?



I'm Nervous, How Do I Network?

I hear the above question from designers often.
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Networking can be scary.
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In this post I'll show you how to overcome fears and get comfortable networking.
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Unfortunately, many designers find it difficult to network.
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​There are plenty of reasons

  • It's way too scary
  • They don't know how to start
  • Did I mention that it's way too scary?
  • Tried it once, received a firm rejection so I stopped

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Sound familiar? I felt all of these as well.
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Let's get started and face those networking challenges.
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And, in the process gain confidence to try new networking skills in the future.
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1. Make a list of those you know

The most difficult part of networking is who to network with.
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Reaching out to someone you don't know can be scary.
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So, we're going to start with people you know, or are familiar with. ​
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How?
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Start by making a list of those in your current network​
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Yes, in your current network.
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We all have them. You have them.
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Some have more connections than others, but you have them.
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Who are they?
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•Family
•Friends
•Alumni
•Mentors
•Teachers
•Friends of friends
•LinkedIn connections
•Current work colleagues
•Previous work colleagues
•Members of groups you belong to
•Designers you met along your journey
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Anyone who works for, have worked for, or who knows those that hire designers.
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They don't have to be designers themselves.
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Just that they have an affiliation with someone who hires or have hired designers.
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Make sense? Next.
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2. Organize your list

Most designers create a list and never do anything with it.
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That's why organizing your list is paramount.
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Your list is one your most important assets as a designer.
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It's how you'll create future opportunities and it will grow as your career grows.
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Let's make your list organized and accessible .
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On a spreadsheet create a set of columns:
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​Name | Company | Title | Contact info | How you’re connected | Notes
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Under each of those columns add those individuals that you collected. You can prioritize based on who they are, and how well you know them.
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​Asset: Notion People Directory Template (free)​
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If you've gotten this far you now have the beginnings of your network.
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Good work.
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3. Reach out to your connections, one-by-one

This can be the most challenging part - reaching out to someone.
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That's why we started with people you're familiar, or somewhat familiar with!
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It's easier to network with those you have a history with.
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We're slowly building your networking muscle.
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Now, one-by-one, connect with your list.
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The goal is to reach out when it makes sense.
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​For example; You noticed that there is a job opening for a design position at a company that one of your connections work at. That would be a good opportunity to connect with them and inquire about the position.
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Maybe you went to school together, or met casually but don't know them well, it might be a good opportunity to rekindle that connection.
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​or

You're new to design and would like to show your portfolio to a working designer who is on your list. Ask for 20 minutes of their time to get their expert feedback on your work.
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You noticed a designers work online which you admire. Connect, let them know how impressed you are and would love to get feedback on something you're working on.

or​
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Maybe you worked with someone in the past and would like to connect again. Try something like this: "I wanted to reach out because I remember [shared experience or project]. I'm currently working on [new project or goal] and thought it would be great to connect again."
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There are many ways, and reasons to connect with those on your list.
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​And remember: People like helping and connecting with others. And, because they're on your list they're more inclined to help.
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Don't feel that you're wasting their time. Reach out.
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If they don't respond you can try again. If you don't hear back a second time, that's okay, move to the next on your list.
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And, always be genuine, specific, and respectful.
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​👉 In future posts I'll show you how to expand your network and connect with others in your industry!
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Conclusion

Build on your current connections and keep growing your list as you grow your career.

• Make a list of people you know
• Organize your network on a spreadsheet
• Reach out and build on that existing relationship

If you have any thoughts I would love to hear them, reply back!
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Thanks for reading, and see you next week!

Anthony Faria
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